Ask Us Anything: Do You Use Viagra/Cialis To Get Hard Again After Cumming?

Question: Like many guys, my refractile period (between coming once and and getting hard again) can vary and will be even longer if drinking. Do you/most guys use Viagra, Cialis, etc? If so, where do you get it - your regular doctor?

 

Him: I don't personally use it. I know several guys that use it, even though they may not necessarily need it. The only experience I recall them sharing with me though is that they just stay hard after cumming. I'm not sure if they take a second dose between partners or not. I personally just wait two hours between cumming and playing again. I've found that this ensures I will be good to go between partners. I've gotten hard again for a round two in under thirty minutes, but I've found that it isn't as reliable as just simply waiting and giving myself that break. During that time I will eat some food and drink some water, walk around, talk with people at whatever party I'm at. I believe you would be able to get the prescription through your regular doctor.

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Ask Us Anything: Are Most Guys Who Swing in the Lifestyle Well Hung?

Question: Hey guys, love the blog. I was wondering if you would say that you and most guys in the couples you guys swing with are well hung? My girlfriend and I have thought about the lifestyle, but sometimes worry if I would be adequate compared to others. Thanks. 

Him: The sizes of the guys range from below average to, on a few occasions, a bit too big for my girlfriend. Would I say most are well hung? No, most are average. My girlfriend enjoys 7 inches or larger. As for myself, I'm 7 inches, which is probably why my girlfriend likes 7 or more inches; it is just something she had probably grown used to over time.  There are guys she has played with that have been five or less inches and she would prefer not to play with them again. It is all about preference, but we've never heard of any girl turning away a guy after seeing his package in the lifestyle, though I suppose it may happen on occasion. Being compared to others is natural, we all have preferences and taste, but I don't think whatever your size is (unless it is something like three inches) is going to hamper your ability to enjoy the lifestyle.

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Ask Us Anything: How Do You Let Female Friends Know You Want a Threesome?

Question: we do have a few hot females in our circle and am sure they'd like to experiment. We'd like to let them know and involve in a 3some, but fear them being judgemental about us.. More over, wifey doesn't prefer them to know she's a bi unless we play. 

Him: Your wife should be able to discuss sexual topics with her female friends. This can include her asking her female friends about their own experiences and also sharing her own and different things she may be interested in trying. You can feel people out for receptiveness by having these kinds of conversations as opposed to flat out propositioning a friend for a threesome. There will always be people that judge you and if they do you have to ask yourself if you want those types of people in your life. You cannot live your life worrying about what other people think about you, especially if they have no real impact on it in the long term.  Once you are fairly sure the girl would be receptive, it is just a matter of creating the right kind of environment for the threesome to occur organically.

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Ask Us Anything: How Do You Handle an FMF Threesome Where Both Girls are Straight?

Question: How do you handle an FMF threesome where both females are straight? Looking for some advice here because this will be happening for me (The male) very soon. 

Him: It is pretty difficult to focus on two girls at the same time during the entire threesome. If one of the girls is your girlfriend and she understands that and won't get jealous if you are giving attention to the other girl, then there shouldn't be any issues, but if she isn't then you will have to make sure you aren't spending an inordinate amount of time with any one girl. There are some positions that will allow you to all play, but more is involved than just merely throwing out tips. If one of the girls is shy in the bedroom then that can change the vibe and dynamic tremendously. The best theme to have in mind is to just make sure that any any given time one of them isn't sitting there twiddling them thumbs during the experience.

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