Swinger House Party - MFMF Full Swap

Background: On Saturday, November 27, 2010 we were invited to a house party in New Jersey. The host was a Single Male, Matt. He invited about 15 Couples, 2 Single Females and 1 Single Male. Of those invited, about 10 couples attended and 1 single male. We messaged most of the Couples on the guest list through Swing Life Style and Sexxy Mofo prior to the party, so we knew that some Couples were not going to make it. Matt’s house was really nice and had plenty of space to play. There was a very large Master bedroom with a king size bed and two air mattresses and a guestroom with a queen size bed.

The Following is Written Mostly From Her Perspective. His Perspective is in Blue. Black is Her Perspective:

We were the first couple to arrive (just how we like it) and Matt’s friend, Frank, was already there helping get everything ready. We hung out in the kitchen and had a drink. We talked to Frank and he was really cool (not a creepy type of single guy). Then more couples started to arrive and we talked to everyone as they came in. All of the couples were much older than us except for one that was very attractive. Their names are Leah and Max.

Leah was a really pretty blonde girl in her early thirties.

This was their first house party and they did not know what to expect. They were not newbies but had just never been to a house party before. For some reason everyone just stayed in the kitchen all night talking instead of spreading out to other parts of the house. Matt was very touchy and a little pushy at times with me and he kept telling me that he was so happy we came and he has wanted to meet me for a long time. It was very flattering, but we were really there for the couples first and maybe a single guy after.

When we first arrived Matt was completely sober and very friendly. However as the night progressed he had quite a bit to drink and became much more touchy feely with the girls. At some point he asked me what I was drinking (Redbull and Vodka) and got me a refill. However, the refill tasted like it was 90% Vodka and 10% Redbull. For anyone reading this, if you want to get someone trashed, give them drinks with very little liquor. If they can’t taste it they will keep drinking more and more. If it tastes like they were drinking straight from the bottle, they will think, (1) This person is trying to get me drunk and the defenses will go up, and (2) They don’t want to drink it. I ended up pouring the drink out and making myself a new one. Obviously he must have thought it would be easier to sleep with my girlfriend if I was in a drunken stupor.

We decided that if we wanted to play with Leah and Max and really weren’t interested in the other couples. I went over to Leah and asked her if they wanted to go upstairs. She said she had to talk to Max first. They then proceeded to the bathroom together to have a consultation. They were in there for awhile which got kind of concerning. We just sat at the kitchen table and talked to a guy half of a couple. He was very nice, but when I asked him the last time he was tested for HIV and STDs he gave a weird answer and also said that they use condoms so that they are protected. I told him that you can STDs from oral too. He seemed very surprised and said he didn’t know that. He then went in for a kiss and I turned my head. He said he was sorry and didn’t know that it was not ok. I said don’t worry about and he went to go back to his wife.

Sometimes the lack of sexual health knowledge that those who participate in the lifestyle have puzzles me. My girlfriend and I are paranoid about it. To not know you can get STDs from oral sex is just idiotic. What is really surprising is that maybe one out of every three Couples seem to lack this understanding.

At that point Leah and Max came out of the bathroom and were talking to another couple. We went over to join them, but she didn’t say anything to me about wanting to go upstairs. I assumed that this meant they decided they didn’t want to play or they just weren’t ready yet. I tried to touch her and grabbed her ass, but there was no reaction from her. From that it seemed like they really weren’t interested.

My boyfriend and I decided that we would go upstairs to see what was going on. There were a few couples playing already. We saw a woman that we talked to in the kitchen blowing Frank on the bed. She was laying on her back and he was straddled over her face while she gave him a blow job. I sat down on the bed by her with my boyfriend and fingered her a little. She seemed to enjoy it and then Frank went to go fuck her so we got up and watched from the side. We saw that Leah and Max came upstairs to see what was going on. They came over to us and asked if this is what normally happens at house parties. We said pretty much this is what it is like. They said they were not really comfortable with everything and they left the room. We figured that meant that they were interested in us, but did not feel comfortable playing in front of other people or very close to other people.

We watched the other couples play and then my boyfriend went to go to the bathroom for a sec. I saw Leah and Max come back into the room and they were standing off to the side by an air mattress. Max came over to me to see if I was ok. He asked me if I was just interested in Leah or if I wanted to play with him too. I said I wanted to play with both of them. Then we saw Matt talking to Leah and she looked uncomfortable so I told her to come over to us. She did and then my boyfriend came back. I am sure he was just as surprised as I was that they were back. They must have really wanted to play with us but just felt so uncomfortable with the situation. I started to kiss Leah and took off her shirt and bra (my dress was already half down). We asked them if they wanted to go into the guest bedroom for more privacy, but they thought that we weren’t allowed in there. We told them that Matt had said we could use it. They were all for it.

We went in the bedroom and locked the door. Leah and I continued to make out on the bed with our guys on either side of us. Max wanted me and Leah to switch sides so we did and he went right into eating me out. My boyfriend then went down Leah. I was making out with Leah while we both go eaten out. This must have turned me on a lot because I came really fast. It took Leah a long time to cum but she did and it seemed like a really intense orgasm. Immediately after she came she told my boyfriend to fuck her. He did and then I put a condom on Max. He fucked me for about a minute and then stopped. Leah said “oh you have to be fucking kidding me”. I guess she knew he had to go pee. He left the room and I just made out and touched Leah while my boyfriend fucked her missionary. She was really enjoying it and was moaning a lot. Then Max came back and tried fucking me again. He seemed to be having some trouble so he switched to doggy style. We started to here knocking on the door. It was Matt asking to come in. We just ignored it. I think Max was trying not to cum because he kept stopping. Then my boyfriend came and I think that Max felt self conscious after because they were done and were watching us plus the knocking on the door was distracting so he stopped and went over to the door to tell Matt he couldn’t come in. Then Max wanted to fuck Leah. My boyfriend and I watched him fuck her doggy style. He was going very slow and I don’t think he actually came.

I had been fucking Leah missionary for awhile and was really enjoying it. I was thinking about switching positions, but then that is when the knocking started. Max stopped fucking my girlfriend doggy and I thought that he came so I just let myself cum. Apparently that was an incorrect assumption. Later on he made some comments about feeling rushed…perhaps from Matt acting like an imbecile and knocking on the door when he knew people were inside fucking. Did he really think we were going to stop and open it for him?

We were done at this point and went to go get cleaned up. I think we were the last people playing except one couple and the single guy. We exchanged contact information with Leah and Max and maybe we will see them again. We really didn’t think that anything was going to happen with them, but good thing we told them about the guest room, otherwise they would not have felt comfortable. We had a good time in the end and maybe we will see them again in the future.

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JandC_Cpl said...

Thank you both for the recounts of your adventures. As a young NY based couple that's new in the lifestyle we really appreciate hearing your stories. Your blog has been teaching us lot of good lessons on how to approach the lifestyle intelligently.

One Question - After seeing all the questionable behavior on Matt's part (especially w/ the drink), do you think you'll be attending one of his parties again or interacting with him much?

J and J said...

Him: If he invites us to another party and the guest list has the right amount of Couple/Single Females in our age range then we would attend. At this point we feel we are experienced enough to effectively deal with such behavior, though in the past we might have declined an invitation to another party hosted by him. What bothered us more (than the drink) was the fact that he kept knocking on the door to the bedroom we were playing in with the other Couple. If the bedroom door was not locked we are under the impression he would have came in and either interrupted our play or tried to interject himself into the middle of our foursome without asking, which is never acceptable.

JandC_Cpl said...

Very good point. I think we're still at the level where we would feel uncomfortable and would need to pass on future events with a questionable person. We've run into some awkward situations in our adventures so far.

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